How to energetically transform relationships
If you are unhappy with a relationship i.e. with your partner, friends or relatives here is a method to heal it. It also works with a person who has already passed away.
Please give yourself time as this is a process. It will give you the inner peace and harmony (love) we all desire. Obviously the outcome also depends on the free will choices of the other person involved. But from your side everything will be resolved in love.
1. Write down how you want people to be in your surrounding. Set your standards, no limits (i.e. thinking about how people are).
2. Write a letter to the person, telling him/ her everything you always wanted to say. Read each day approx. 3 times until emotionally neutral, then burn it. If again something with that same person arises, repeat the process for as many times as necessary. Don`t get upset or annoyed if you need several repetitions. It will come to an end. (On one occasion I wrote about 10? letters. It was well worth it.)
3. If possible, gather information about the life history of the other person to understand where their way to act, talk etc. originates from: sufferings, childhood trauma etc. This will help you understand why your experience has been such and why things happened as they happened. Every person does his/her best to the knowledge and understanding he or she has at that moment in time. If you accept that, healing starts.
You realize that there is nothing to forgive, that the other person acted according to his/her programming which has nothing to do with you (personally).
4. Each person has to energetically accomplish what you expect from him/her. (by universal law) So you need to get to an emotionally neutral place to either expect nothing or the best from the other person. Everything needs to be cleared, sometimes not only originating from this incarnation.
There are several videos online i.e. by Abraham Hicks about how to deal with “bad” people, negative people etc. I found those very helpful. You can also check out my youtube channel on how to write goodbye letters. There are free videos in english and german.
Get to work. You might be in for a miracle.
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